Dating Secrets For Men, Part 1
When you think of “dating” a woman, you probably think of “dinner and a movie,” am I right?
It’s a simple process – you go out and do things with her, to get to know her. Right?
Well, what if I told you that you had the completely WRONG idea about dating?
See, most guys use the concept of “going out” with a girl to mean that there is some romantic ulterior motive there, and that is not always the case.
Let’s go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when “dating” a girl…
Mistake #1: Guys use dates as opportunities to “Impress” women.
Lots of guys think they have something to prove on dates. They “have to get her to like me!” So they’ll try and take her to fancy places to show her a memorable time, and they’ll try and brag about themselves to come off as important.
Mistake #2: Guys think they can buy their way into a woman’s heart.
A sad truth is that a good portion of men today think that if you spend money on a woman, you buy the right to sleep with them. This is never a good way of thinking.
Most women don’t care how much you spend on them, except for the few gold diggers running around out there.
Mistake #3: Activities Mean Nothing!
Just the sheer act of going out to places with somebody doesn’t mean as much as you think it does. If you do the typical “dinner and a movie” thing, that won’t necessarily get the girl to like you. Spending time together does not always equate to romanic interest.
Mistake #4: Guys can become BORING!
Nothing is worse than going out on a date where there is no spark or chemistry. Some guys get so nervous on dates, that they sabotage themselves by being a boring dud. They talk about mundane things, display little or no personality, and just go through the motions hoping not to screw anything up.
Mistake #5: Guys follow a pattern of failure.
Finally, many men get a certain idea about dating in their heads – how things are supposed to be – and they follow that rigidly.
They take every girl to the same restaurant. They ask her the same questions. They take all the fun and spontaneity out of the interaction.
So what is a better approach to all this? I’ll get into that in the second part of this article.
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